Why is it so hard to find true love
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I was married for 18 years had a daughter, and one day wife just walk away yes there was problems. but my point is that i through i had true love but i did,nt. then i got a girlfriend and one day that's over, i through i had true love, now i,m online dating and its hard to find just one good women. why is it so hard to find true love? it is a great feeling to be in love and you just feel so good to have someone that loves you, to come home too, to make love too, to watch movies, TV, etc: i am the kind of guy that can love with everything i got , But ( there,s aways a BUT) i got to feel that love back and more, i am a big baby about women love i got to feel it in my heart that she loves me and if i don,t i,m not happy, now i know it got to do with my ex wife as i through she loved me all 18 years but she did,nt i now know that and maybe that's why i got to feel that love back and more, i know i can love a women with everything in me because i have done it before you see i did love my ex wife with everything in me but i did,nt get it back and that is what i want more then anything is TRUE LOVE and in return i will give a women True Love back!
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Why is it so hard to find true love
Very nice hub. I really enjoyed it.
Damn, I actually got a lump in my throat reading this! Good luck man.
The 64 million dollar question! In my experience all things are temporary. Even when people find true love, death eventually will bring it an end. EVERYTHING is temporary, a realtionship and the pain of loosing one. Your job, the price of gas, the state of the world, or love.
The thing I always try to focus on is that as well as being temporary, everything is also a matter of perception. We choose to feel bad about something, or good about it. It is always our choice which. Been there my self and I still believe it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Remember all the good, forget the bad, no one is perfect. They were not, we were not.
Most of us spend our time thinking about what we DON'T want instead of what we DO want. I can tell you honestly when you start visulizing, focusing on, and thinking about what you DO want, it will practically fall out of the sky. See your self happy in love, bring to mind and relive, a time in your life you felt completely totally emersed in love. (careful not to slip into the "bad, or the ending of it" feelings)Do that all day every day and you will be shocked at what happens. You can apply this to everything in your life, money, work, friends, true love! GOOD LUCK and thanks so much for the hub.
It takes quite a person to love with all they have, even after heartbreak. Some people are in love with love, this impairs their ability to pick the right person for them. They initially get caught up in the feeling of love and infatuation that they overlook the details about truly getting to know the person.
True love is when you don't care how good or how awful the end result will be. I met a guy whom I swore was my soul mate and true love, but I had feeling he would break my heart ,and still I loved him with all I had. We had a great relationship until 9 months later he died in a drowning accident. He did break my heart but I'm glad I fell in love with him. It just shows that you should love in the moment and not think about how it will end or if it will end- like 1964 human said in above comment, "everything is temporary."
I understand what you are saying, when you find the answer please let me know!!! :-) Great hub. I guess finding something requires first that we define it and become what we desire to find. Then perhaps we will attract it into our lives.
You often find things you are searching for when you stop looking so hard. Do not volunteer information so fast to future women. If you make someone earn information, it's more important to them.
Simple - next time ... Marry Asian women!
They go nowhere as they fear of God and love comes from GOD - not from pubs!
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modernsavage 3 years ago
"I got to feel it in my heart that she loves me and if i don't I'm not happy" -- you
You are what you love. Not what loves you.