How to get over your mairrage

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By jgrof299

How do i get over her

 I was married for 18 years and in love for all of it! And one day ex wife walk out on our daughter and I for a 70year old boss that she work with on the weekends at a bingo hall. Yes there was the signs of her not in the marriage, like the phone calls and etc: and now its been 4 years but i,m stall having nightmares of why or how could she do this kind of thing to not just me but our daughter too, and how could i not see this coming, how could i let her hurt me so bad, how could she fool me for so long, how could i be married to a women that could do something like this,  and i know that i did somethings wrong in the marriage, but i can tell you that she know every day that i loved her more then anything or anyone in this world, i was so good to her and this is what i got out of it!! (NIGHTMARES)!  How could she Hurt me so bad?

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fergie9 3 years ago

Don't beat yourself up on the questions you keep asking yourself. When you are in love with somebody, so deeply like you were, you look the other way. "Love is Blind." You let things slide, and ignore them, because you are so much in love. You have to find that place in your brain to keep what you went through there, because you will never forget about it no matter how hard you try. I know it is very difficult to do, but you will find a way to deal with it. Nobody else can do it for you. This is something you have to do on your own.

Hang in there. I know it seems like the end of the world, but believe me it is not. Once you put it away, things will be better.

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks

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chazzburke 3 years ago

People suck some times but I am not going to give up on love and nither should you. Hang in there my brother love your child love your life. Thats what I am doing. Thanks for shareing.

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks buddy

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marinealways24 3 years ago

This may be hard to understand, everyone "clicks" different inside their head. Some people care about others more, some people are selfesh and only care about personal needs. Learn from this is be proud it happened now. The past makes you stronger when you learn from it. The only time it makes you weaker is when you fail to learn. Forgive and move on is the best advice I can give.

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

( Marinealways24) Thanks that is the best advice i have got, means alot ( THANKS AGAIN)

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marinealways24 3 years ago

No Problem. Based from experience. Find the person that "clicks" as you do. A person with good and pure morals is a person who puts others first.

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

Thats the hard part, finding that ONE!!!!!

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marinealways24 3 years ago

Look in a church!

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blackbutterfly103 3 years ago

Oh how I wish I could take the pain away and rest your traveling heart. just know that she didn't know any better. Clear your thoughts because God doesn't make mistakes she's gone for a reason. She has left you to teach your daughter how not to run from her problems/ situations and how to love unconditionally

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks

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Princess Kari 3 years ago

I'm sorry that this happened to you. i guess at least you know that you did everything you could to make the marriage work, which is awesome because sadly many men out there don't. Things happen that we don't always understand. I can't offer you much advice because I cant comprehend a break up on that level, only I can say that I am truly sorry and that I wish you all the best.

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jgrof299 Hub Author 3 years ago

princess Kari,

Thanks so much for caring,

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